If you're an FTM (female-to-male) and want to pass more confidently, you're not alone. Whether you're pre-T, non-binary, or just starting your transition, there are practical ways to appear more masculine in everyday life. From your haircut to your posture, here’s a complete, beginner-friendly guide to help you pass as male in a way that feels authentic and comfortable.
💇♂️ Masculine Appearance Hacks
1. Get a Masculine Haircut (Not Just a Short One)
Go to a barber or someone who regularly cuts men’s hair. Avoid stylists unfamiliar with masculine cuts—they might give you a short but feminine style. Bring reference photos and be clear about what you want. Ask for shaved or faded sideburns for a more masculine edge.
2. Style with Men’s Hair Products
Use gel or pomade to push your hair back or out of your face. Even with longer cuts, styling makes a huge difference in how masculine you look.
3. Shave Your Face Regularly
Even if you can’t grow facial hair yet, shaving helps remove soft peach fuzz, which is often read as feminine. Use shaving cream, a fresh razor, and maybe some aftershave for a clean, masculine finish.
4. Skip Makeup, Keep Brows Thick
Ditch foundation, lipstick, and overly shaped brows. If you want subtle contouring or darkened brows, keep it light and natural—too much defeats the goal.
5. Bind Safely
Use a proper chest binder (never ACE bandages). The goal isn’t flatness but a pec-like chest shape. Limit wear to 8 hours max, and make sure it’s the right size to protect your ribs and breathing.
6. Pack Realistically
Use a packer or DIY with condoms, hair gel, and nylon for a subtle bulge. It’s not about having something huge—realism is key.
7. Consider Hormone Therapy
If you’re open to it, talk to a doctor about testosterone. It deepens your voice, stops periods, grows body/facial hair, and boosts muscle mass.
👕 How to Dress Masculine
1. Choose Loose, Chest-Hiding Tops
Go for cotton button-downs, crewnecks, and hoodies. Avoid clingy fabrics. Patterns and layering also help divert attention from the chest.
2. Stick to Straight-Leg Jeans or Work Pants
Buy men’s or boys’ pants for a better fit. Avoid skinny or bootcut jeans—they show curves.
3. Wear Men’s Shoes and Socks
Pick masculine styles like sneakers, loafers, or boots in black, brown, or grey. Skip flats, sandals, or anything overtly feminine.
4. Get Gender-Affirming Swimwear
Use a binder-safe rash guard, swim vest, or wear a T-shirt over trunks. For safety, bind loosely or skip binding entirely when swimming.
5. Suit Up for Formal Events
Go for black, navy, or grey suits with shoulder pads to widen your frame. Pair it with a crisp dress shirt and leather shoes.
🧍♂️ Masculine Behavior Tips
1. Take Up Space
Don’t shrink yourself. Sit with your legs apart, stand tall, and let your arms hang loose. It instantly gives off masculine energy.
2. Practice a Firm Handshake
Grasp their hand confidently, make eye contact, and keep it short—2 to 3 shakes is plenty.
3. Train Your Voice
Try vocal exercises to make your voice sound deeper and fuller. Apps and YouTube tutorials can help you practice safely.
4. Keep a Monotone Delivery
Men often speak in steady tones without much pitch variation. Mimic that style, even if your voice is naturally high.
Passing is a personal journey—there’s no one-size-fits-all formula. But with these appearance, clothing, and behavior tips, you'll increase your chances of being seen and affirmed as male in everyday life, while staying true to yourself.
